There’s a particular kind of courage in loving someone. Not in the grand gestures or the Valentine’s cards or the carefully selected flowers and chocolates – though these have their place. The real bravery lies in the everyday choice to keep loving, even when love isn’t feeling particularly magical.
Love lives in the small moments we rarely think to celebrate. It’s in the way you know exactly how they take their coffee or how they’ll react to good news before they say a word. It’s understanding that sometimes “I’m fine” means “Please just stay close,” and knowing when silence is more comforting than words.
We often search for love in extraordinary places, expecting fireworks and symphonies. But real love tends to hide in ordinary moments, shared glances across a crowded room, fingers intertwined during a movie, the soft sound of their breathing as they fall asleep beside you. It’s in the gentle way they touch your back when passing in the kitchen or how they still laugh at your jokes even though they’ve heard them all before.
The truth is, love isn’t always roses and sonnets. Sometimes it’s making soup when they’re sick or driving across town to pick them up when their car breaks down. It’s choosing someone even when they’re not at their most choosable and being chosen in return.
Perhaps that’s the real miracle of love – not that it conquers all, but that it transforms the mundane into the meaningful. It turns routine into ritual, habit into harmony. It makes a simple “good morning” feel like poetry and an ordinary Tuesday evening feel like a celebration.
This Valentine’s Day, let’s honor love not just for its grandeur but for its persistence, and how it turns everyday moments into memories worth keeping and makes the simple act of choosing someone again and again feel like the greatest adventure of all.
Happy Valentine’s Week everyone!
Remember, there’s always a reason to celebrate!
The Gala Guru
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