The Etiquette of Gift Returns and Regifting

Dear Gala Guru,

Now that the holidays are over, I am taking inventory of some of my presents. There are several that I will never use and just don’t like. What are your thoughts on returning the gifts to the store or re-gifting them next year?

Sandie

Relax—you’re not alone. We’ve all unwrapped a gift and wondered, “Was this meant for someone else?” Tackling unwanted presents is a holiday tradition in itself.

Regifting is not just a savvy move; it’s a practical solution that empowers you to turn one person’s unwanted item into another’s cherished possession. That artisanal hot sauce set you’ll never use? It could spark joy in your spice-loving coworker. Remember the golden rules: avoid regifting within the same social circle to avoid potential drama, and always check for forgotten notes—”To Sarah, with love” is a definite vibe-killer.

Returning, on the other hand, is a straightforward route to gift redemption. Many stores offer extended holiday return windows, but it’s best to act quickly—these policies tend to disappear faster than New Year’s Resolutions. So, keep your receipts handy, and be prepared for the occasional store credit shuffle.

Regardless of your option, the key is always to express gratitude. It’s not just a formality; it’s a way to show respect for the giver, even if they thought you’d really want that neon reindeer sweater with blinking lights. Smile, thank the giver, and wear that sweater with pride when Aunt Martha drops by.  

Whether you regift, return, or squirrel it away in the back of a closet, remember: it’s not about rejecting generosity—it’s about finding the right home (or exchange counter) for an unloved gift.

If neither regifting nor returning is an option, consider repurposing the item or donating it to someone in need. There’s always a way to ensure the gift finds a home where it will be appreciated, and that’s a cause for optimism and hope.

Remember, there’s always a reason to celebrate

The Gala Guru

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